Have You Felt The Spark With A Kiss?

When it comes to looking for the 'one' you expect to find them when sparks fly. How long does one need to wait before the sparks fly? Is is after the first kiss, first date, or when you feel the butterflies flutter in your stomach? 

First, You Go On A Date

1. It is miserable. You know he or she is not for you.
2. You like her or his company but don't feel the spark. You want to try another date.
3. You know she or he is the one for you. You are hoping they feel the same way.

3 Set Of Rules That Can Vary With Each Date

1. Never call it quits on a decent first date. As emotions will be high strung. Never give up an opportunity to spend time with a nice person. If the person isn't a potential mate. You may have in fact found a new life-long friend.

2. Call it quits if the person is sending warnings or red flag signals. Such as referring to the opposite gender with negative and degrading words. Or seems to want to get in your pants. Unless you are looking for that.
3. Three dates is a good amount of time to realize if you want to pursue the person for a long term relationship or not. If you think he or she is a nice person but don't feel like getting a kiss. Move on that way the next person can have a chance. Don't settle or you can miss your chance to finally feel that spark.

 I Knew When the Sparks Flew

I knew when the sparks flew the first time with my boyfriend when my heart was racing. At the same time, I was light headed after a kiss. With no awkward moments. I remember it clearly, where we were, what room we were in, what we were doing. Till this day I crave his kisses and soft touch. Everything around us seems to disappear when he kisses me. It is like we are entwined together as one, where all I can think about is how much I love him. It was, do I dare say 'magical'.

Have you felt the spark? 

I will leave you to listen to the video of "Sparks fly / Kissing You" by Miranda Cosgrove